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Sunday, February 14, 2010
Life is a Party!!!
Normally, we remember some dates of our Life, our Birthday, spouse & Children's Birthday, Marriage anniversary, first Love, first Rose, first Kiss n so on.. The List never becomes too long, it can easily be counted on the fingers. So, these some dates become the Party reason for all of us. We wait for same, plan some party n have a Blast, every time,,,same time of the year.
I do remember many such dates, even date I went to my first Hostel 19 Jun 1983, Hindu College, Sonepat. The date I started my Life at Indo-Swiss, Chandigarh - 05 Sep 1985. The date I started my first job - 31 Jul 1989. My first car - 21 Jun 1995, last time I bought a car - 27 April, 2007..There are so many besides the usual ones - Birthdays and anniversaries.
So many options to Party, but Life is moving at such a pace that I have to miss these parties on many a occassions, like - I gave Interview at Kodak on 3rd Dec, 2001 - my Birthday n then Joined on 15 Jan, 2002. At Kodak, on many occassions, I travelled to Mumbai on my Birthday & even on my wife n kids Birthday and even on my Marriage Anniversary, thats the Life.
Even today, Feb 14th, is my Marriage Anniversary. I had planned to move to a new House on this day but destiny is more powerful n I am sitting at Tubingen, Germany. The people world over are celebrating Valentines Day but I am looking out of window at the Necker river and the snow around the same... Its no fun but the same can not be avoided, so I have changed myself over the years to Party anytime I feel like and anytime my spouse n kid ask for it. Good to have such attitude rather than feeling low about the missed oppurtunities..
Change with the time n Enjoy the Parties at any given time rather than waiting for only special days n enjoy the Life,,,,try it... Life is a Party!!!
Life is not a Straight Road..
Again, as usual sitting at a Airport waiting to catch a Flight.., sometimes I think, flying nowadays should be the Best possible destress factor. As during the time, you are airborne, no one can reach you, either by mail or by telephone. No one can knock on ur door, absolutely no disturbance. No spouses n no kids, no demands n no worries about supplies.. You are a Free Bird. Better to enjoy the time in catching up on ur sleep, if you can or browse through a long unfinished Book n just ask the purser to keep the Coffee Mug always full..
Try it, surely u will enjoy the same. I have seen people hooked on to their laptops even during Flying,,,,Why??? Even people are not ready to switch OFF their Blackberry despite clear instructions. It seems they cannot live disconnected, I think, they surely avoid even their basic daily chores n not to talk about their lack of time for their kid's n spouse's needs.. May God give them more Non- network areas to divert their attention from their NETworks..
Life is changing fast n we also need to change with it to keep up the pace, but we should try to keep the things as much as simple as possible. It adds to the joy, if u get a straight empty road to speed up after a busy street, but thats also a rarety nowadays. Adjust ur schedules in a way, which gives u enough time to Relax and enjoy the Drive, be it the drive of the Life or the drive to ur Business meet..
Simplicity Helps..Always
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